Tips for how to arrange your letters:
For Monograms: It
is customary to specify Initials in the following order: first name,
last name and middle name. The last-name Initial always appears centered
and slightly larger than the two initials on either side.
For Duograms: For couples who share the same last name, it is customary to specify initials in this order: wife's first name, family (last) name, then husband's first name. For proper etiquette, it is always "Ladies first". However, it is always your choice in which to specify the order.